Starting her third year of marriage, Carrie MonroeO'Keefe had already been on the roller coaster ofextreme highs and lows of a newly blended family.Thinking she could do a better job of navigatingmarriage, stepmotherhood, working full time, and all ofthe things, she embarked on a year of "what if."Settling into her role as wife and mom, she tried to findways to do things better, see things differently, andreframe her thinking to create a better home for herfamily and to feel more at home herself. With humor,unwavering honesty, vulnerability, and sarcasm, Carriefinds her way through the year and her true self.