"Tenderly poignant, wise and affecting." Kirkus
In an epic road trip with his Little League son, a divorced dad's eight-ballpark journey tries to rescue his fatherhood--and learn how his dad's suicide might not doom him to repeat a father's mistakes.
The rarest outcome in sports is baseball's perfect game. One team does everything right, forcing the other to accomplish nothing. In 150 years of baseball, there have only been 23. Perfect is nearly impossible. As a divorced dad, Ron was trying to redeem his fatherhood with a road trip with his Little League son Nicky. Their odyssey of crossing eight states in a rented convertible was supposed to salvage Ron's life as an unsure father. Custody fatherhood demoted him to the second team -- he was certain of that. One sign of salvation came unbidden in an unscheduled tenth ballgame.
The adventures and revelations of the road lead to a deeper reckoning of how Ron's father had failed enough at his fatherhood to take his own life. Thousands of miles and dozens of innings delivered a discovery: a drive toward perfect fatherhood has a destination that cannot be found on any map.
Stealing Home is the story of an eleven-day, nine-game trip with a Little Leaguer -- and how plans for perfection delivered things deeper than scores, miles, and smiles. You don't have to drive 3,147 miles to find your way to fatherhood. When Ron did, something magical and rare appeared at the end, inside his heart as well as on a diamond.
"Authentic, emotional, and brave, Ron Seybold's memoir is a timeless journey of the universal struggle to rise above the past. Stealing Home is a beautiful testament to the power of a father's love." - Claire Ashby, New York Times best-selling author of When You Make It Home
"Part baseball, part fatherhood, and all boyhood, Stealing Home plays out the mystery of love and family. Fueled by his determination to become a better dad, Seybold's journey becomes a quest to reconcile the past and his future. The magic lies in the storytelling that travels the road to something perfect." - Donna Johnson, author of Holy Ghost Girl: A Memoir
"A beautifully written, touching memoir about family dynamics revealed in the bonding of a father and son." - Larry Brill, author of award-winning romance Deja Vu All Over Again
"Five Stars. It's so much more than a memoir. It's a grand road trip story as well as a real-life family saga. At its heart, Stealing Home is the consummate baseball story. An enthralling memoir, most highly recommended." Reader's Favorite
"Stealing Home deserves a spot in any good parenting collection. Its road trip and baseball observations and metaphors permeate a jaunty yet introspective story about an evolving relationship between father and son. Readers receive unexpected treats that move far beyond the physical journey and into the finer art of sharing not just love, but life.
The meat of any family exposé lies in tracing intergenerational patterns. Seybold does a fantastic job of integrating his experiences with his own father and their connections through baseball, which are very different scenarios than what he more mindfully cultivates with his son.
It will especially appeal to male readers seeking enlightenment and ideas for their own approaches to fatherhood. Its backdrop of baseball lends to a rare accessibility for men who usually don't consider parenting books to be engrossing reading." - Midwest Book Review
"A beautifully stirring reflection on the joys and challenges of fatherhood. Tenderly poignant, wise and affecting, and ably capturing the excitement of live baseball." -- Kirkus
"A must-read. This book is about much more than baseball. It explores the father-son relationship on so many levels. The writing is outstanding, and I enjoyed the easy, baseball-game-like pacing. The extraordinary thing about this memoir was how it happened, not that it happened. As a baseball fan, a writer of baseball stories, and a parent, I couldn't have been more pleased." Reedsy Discovery
"Steady in its narration, the book captures everyday scenes through a father's eyes, picking out and highlighting details that indicate his deep love for his son and his difficulties when it comes to pursuing a perfect outcome. Evocative and careful, even its scenes that are filled with sports jargon or inside jokes resonate. -- Foreword Clarion
"A jaunty yet introspective story about an evolving relationship between father and son. The meat of any family exposé lies in tracing intergenerational patterns. It will especially appeal to men seeking enlightenment and ideas for their own approaches to fatherhood." -- Midwest Book Review
"Rich with sports metaphor, Stealing Home offers a touching and complex look at how, experience by experience, individuals repair generations of fury-fueled despair." -- Indie Reader
About the Author
Ron Seybold is an editor and ex-sportswriter with baseball memories from before the designated hitter era, as well as World Series joy from both his NL and AL teams. He coaches authors, edits books, and released his debut novel Viral Times long before Instagram was everywhere. He writes and edits in Austin, where his wife teaches yoga, his grandchildren visit and play, and the family poodle Tess Harding insists on more walks than she gets.
He directs the Writer's Workshop in Austin, a resource for publication, manuscript development and editing, and author coaching. A two-time finalist in the Writers League of Texas contests for memoir and historical fiction, he's reported on the radio, acted in Austin melodramas and Shakespearian dramas, and launched a tech business publication with his wife. He's a teaching volunteer at the Austin Bat Cave literacy program in schools and plays a role in helping authors from inspiration to publication.